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Funeral songs

Choosing the music is one of the first things a funeral home will ask about, and one of the hardest. These lists start from what families actually choose, according to published funeral data, and let you narrow them down by country, part of the service, faith, style and the decade the person loved.

Short answer

In the UK, SunLife’s 2026 report found Abide with Me has overtaken My Way as the most played funeral song. Other perennial choices include Time to Say Goodbye, Somewhere Over the Rainbow, You’ll Never Walk Alone and Wind Beneath My Wings. In the US, where no comparable chart is published, hymns such as Amazing Grace remain common choices. Most services have three moments for music: entrance, reflection and exit.

Music for each part of the service

  • EntranceAs the coffin or family comes in. Calm and dignified; often classical or a hymn tune.
  • HymnSung by everyone. Choose a tune most guests know.
  • ReflectionA moment to remember, often with photos on screen. The song that sounds most like them.
  • Slideshow / tribute filmUnder the tribute film: 1–2 songs of 3–4 minutes each.
  • CommittalThe final farewell, as curtains close or the coffin is lowered. Quiet and short.
  • ExitAs everyone leaves. Often more uplifting: a favorite, even a funny one.
  • Wake / receptionAt the gathering afterwards: the songs they danced to.

Find songs

Every song links to an official recording we checked on YouTube or Spotify. Filters are saved in the address bar, so you can send a list to family.

114 songs

  1. Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò)

    Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman · Francesco Sartori / Lucio Quarantotto · 1996 · 4:05

    • Entrance
    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    • IE
  2. My Way

    Frank Sinatra · 1969 · 4:35

    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    • IE
  3. Somewhere Over the Rainbow

    Eva Cassidy · Harold Arlen / Yip Harburg · 1998 · 4:50

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • IE
  4. Supermarket Flowers

    Ed Sheeran · 2017 · 3:41

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • IE
  5. Wind Beneath My Wings

    Bette Midler · Jeff Silbar / Larry Henley · 1988 · 4:53

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    • IE
  6. You Raise Me Up

    Josh Groban · Rolf Løvland / Brendan Graham · 2003 · 4:50

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • CA
    • AU
  7. Everybody Hurts

    R.E.M. · 1992 · 5:20

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
  8. My Heart Will Go On

    Celine Dion · James Horner / Will Jennings · 1997 · 4:40

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • CA
    • AU
  9. I Will Always Love You

    Whitney Houston · Dolly Parton · 1992 · 4:32

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  10. Over the Rainbow

    Judy Garland · Harold Arlen / Yip Harburg · 1939 · 2:45

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • AU
    • US
  11. Somewhere Over the Rainbow / What a Wonderful World

    Israel Kamakawiwo'ole · 1993 · 5:07

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • Exit
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
  12. Highway to Hell

    AC/DC · 1979 · 3:28

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • AU
    • US
  13. Another One Bites the Dust

    Queen · 1980 · 3:35

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  14. Ring of Fire

    Johnny Cash · June Carter / Merle Kilgore · 1963 · 2:37

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • US
  15. Stairway to Heaven

    Led Zeppelin · 1971 · 8:02

    • Reflection
    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  16. Take Me Home, Country Roads

    John Denver · 1971 · 3:10

    • Exit
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
  17. I Will Always Love You

    Dolly Parton · 1974 · 2:55

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
  18. The Gambler

    Kenny Rogers · Don Schlitz · 1978 · 3:33

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • US
  19. Islands in the Stream

    Dolly Parton & Kenny Rogers · Barry, Robin & Maurice Gibb · 1983 · 4:10

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • US
  20. Ave Maria (Schubert)

    Franz Schubert (various performers) · Franz Schubert · 1825 · 5:00

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • Catholic
    • UK
    • US
    • IE
    • CA
    • AU
    • HU
  21. Adagio for Strings

    Samuel Barber (orchestral) · Samuel Barber · 1936 · 8:00

    • Entrance
    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • UK
    • US
  22. Dance With My Father

    Luther Vandross · 2003 · 4:25

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
  23. One Sweet Day

    Mariah Carey & Boyz II Men · 1995 · 4:42

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
  24. I Miss You

    Beyoncé · Frank Ocean / Shea Taylor · 2011 · 3:00

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
  25. Unforgettable

    Natalie Cole & Nat King Cole · Irving Gordon · 1991 · 3:30

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  26. Unforgettable

    Nat King Cole · Irving Gordon · 1951 · 2:35

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  27. It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday

    Boyz II Men · Freddie Perren / Christine Yarian · 1991 · 2:50

    • Reflection
    • US
    • UK
  28. Sweet Caroline

    Neil Diamond · 1969 · 3:23

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • UK
    • US
  29. Amazing Grace

    Traditional hymn · John Newton (words, 1779) · 1972 · 3:20

    • Hymn
    • Committal
    • Exit
    • Christian (all)
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    • IE
  30. Amazing Grace

    LeAnn Rimes · John Newton (words) · 1997 · 3:30

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Christian (all)
    • US
    • CA
  31. Spirit in the Sky

    Norman Greenbaum · 1969 · 4:00

    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  32. Make Me a Channel of Your Peace

    Traditional hymn · Sebastian Temple (Prayer of St Francis) · 1967 · 3:30

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Catholic
    • UK
    • IE
    • US
    • AU
  33. Great Is Thy Faithfulness

    Traditional hymn · William M. Runyan / Thomas Chisholm · 1923 · 3:40

    • Hymn
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • UK
    • US
  34. The Old Rugged Cross

    Traditional hymn · George Bennard · 1912 · 3:20

    • Hymn
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  35. For the Beauty of the Earth

    Traditional hymn · F. S. Pierpoint / Conrad Kocher (tune Dix) · 1864 · 3:00

    • Hymn
    • Church of England / Anglican
    • UK
    • US
  36. Be Still, My Soul (Finlandia)

    Traditional hymn · Jean Sibelius (tune Finlandia) / Katharina von Schlegel · 1899 · 3:20

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • UK
    • US
    • CA
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  37. How Great Thou Art

    Elvis Presley · Carl Boberg / Stuart K. Hine · 1967 · 3:00

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Gospel
    • US
    • UK
    • AU
    • CA
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  38. It Is Well With My Soul

    Traditional hymn · Philip Bliss / Horatio Spafford · 1876 · 4:00

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • US
    • UK
    • CA
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  39. Precious Lord, Take My Hand

    Mahalia Jackson · Thomas A. Dorsey · 1956 · 3:40

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • Gospel
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  40. I'll Fly Away

    Alison Krauss & Gillian Welch · Albert E. Brumley · 2000 · 3:56

    • Hymn
    • Exit
    • Gospel
    • US
  41. Going Home (Largo from New World Symphony)

    Traditional (Dvořák) · Antonín Dvořák / William Arms Fisher · 1922 · 4:00

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  42. Softly and Tenderly Jesus Is Calling

    Traditional hymn · Will L. Thompson · 1880 · 3:20

    • Hymn
    • Committal
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  43. In the Garden

    Alan Jackson · C. Austin Miles · 2006 · 3:00

    • Hymn
    • Reflection
    • Protestant / Nonconformist
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  44. On Eagle's Wings

    Traditional hymn · Michael Joncas · 1979 · 4:20

    • Hymn
    • Committal
    • Catholic
    • US
    • CA
    • IE
  45. Be Not Afraid

    Traditional hymn · Bob Dufford SJ · 1975 · 4:00

    • Hymn
    • Entrance
    • Catholic
    • US
    • CA
  46. Here I Am, Lord

    Traditional hymn · Dan Schutte · 1981 · 4:00

    • Hymn
    • Entrance
    • Catholic
    • US
    • CA
    • UK
    • IE
  47. Panis Angelicus

    Traditional (César Franck) · César Franck · 1872 · 4:00

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • Catholic
    • UK
    • US
    • IE
    • CA
  48. Pie Jesu (Requiem)

    Sarah Brightman · Andrew Lloyd Webber · 1985 · 4:00

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • Catholic
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  49. Canon in D

    Johann Pachelbel (orchestral) · Johann Pachelbel · 1680 · 5:00

    • Entrance
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  50. Air on the G String

    J. S. Bach (orchestral) · Johann Sebastian Bach · 1730 · 5:00

    • Entrance
    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  51. Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring

    J. S. Bach (choral/orchestral) · Johann Sebastian Bach · 1723 · 3:20

    • Entrance
    • Reflection
    • Christian (all)
    • US
    • UK
  52. Clair de Lune

    Claude Debussy (piano) · Claude Debussy · 1905 · 5:00

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  53. Taps

    U.S. military bugle call · Daniel Butterfield (attrib.) · 1862 · 1:00

    • Committal
    • US
  54. Danny Boy

    Traditional (Irish air) · Frederic Weatherly (words) / Londonderry Air · 1913 · 3:20

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • IE
    • UK
    • US
    • CA
    • AU
  55. Imagine

    John Lennon · 1971 · 3:03

    • Reflection
    • US
    • UK
    • CA
  56. Tears in Heaven

    Eric Clapton · Eric Clapton / Will Jennings · 1992 · 4:32

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    • CA
  57. Bridge Over Troubled Water

    Simon & Garfunkel · Paul Simon · 1970 · 4:55

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    • CA
  58. I Can Only Imagine

    MercyMe · Bart Millard · 2001 · 4:08

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • Christian (all)
    • US
    • CA
  59. When I Get Where I'm Going

    Brad Paisley feat. Dolly Parton · 2006 · 4:36

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • Christian (all)
    • US
  60. Go Rest High on That Mountain

    Vince Gill · 1995 · 5:00

    • Reflection
    • Committal
    • Christian (all)
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  61. Hallelujah

    Leonard Cohen · 1984 · 4:40

    • Reflection
    • CA
    • US
    • UK
  62. Hallelujah

    Jeff Buckley · Leonard Cohen · 1994 · 6:54

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    • IE
  63. What a Wonderful World

    Louis Armstrong · Bob Thiele / George David Weiss · 1967 · 2:20

    • Exit
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • CA
    • IE
  64. Angel

    Sarah McLachlan · 1997 · 4:30

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • CA
    • US
    • AU
  65. I Will Remember You

    Sarah McLachlan · 1995 · 4:30

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • CA
    • US
  66. Candle in the Wind

    Elton John · Elton John / Bernie Taupin · 1973 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
    • HU
  67. Goodbye My Lover

    James Blunt · 2004 · 4:18

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
    • AU
  68. The Rose

    Bette Midler · Amanda McBroom · 1979 · 3:35

    • Reflection
    • US
    • AU
    • UK
  69. I'll Be Missing You

    Puff Daddy & Faith Evans feat. 112 · 1997 · 5:03

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  70. See You Again

    Wiz Khalifa feat. Charlie Puth · 2015 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    • AU
    • CA
  71. Cigarette Daydreams

    Cage the Elephant · 2013 · 3:28

    • Reflection
    • US
  72. Mr Loverman

    Ricky Montgomery · 2016 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • US
  73. My Immortal

    Evanescence · 2003 · 4:24

    • Reflection
    • US
  74. Knockin' on Heaven's Door

    Bob Dylan · 1973 · 2:30

    • Reflection
    • US
    • UK
  75. Fire and Rain

    James Taylor · 1970 · 3:20

    • Reflection
    • US
  76. Wish You Were Here

    Pink Floyd · 1975 · 5:34

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
  77. Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)

    Green Day · 1997 · 2:34

    • Exit
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
  78. Forever Young

    Alphaville · 1984 · 3:46

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  79. The Way We Were

    Barbra Streisand · Marvin Hamlisch · 1973 · 3:30

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  80. Nothing Compares 2 U

    Sinéad O'Connor · Prince · 1990 · 4:40

    • Reflection
    • IE
    • UK
    • US
  81. There You'll Be

    Faith Hill · Diane Warren · 2001 · 3:42

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
  82. Time After Time

    Cyndi Lauper · 1984 · 4:00

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  83. Turn! Turn! Turn!

    The Byrds · Pete Seeger (Ecclesiastes 3) · 1965 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • Exit
    • US
    • UK
  84. Heroes

    David Bowie · 1977 · 6:10

    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
  85. Free Bird

    Lynyrd Skynyrd · 1973 · 9:08

    • Exit
    • US
  86. Keep Me in Your Heart

    Warren Zevon · 2003 · 3:27

    • Reflection
    • US
  87. To Where You Are

    Josh Groban · 2001 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • US
    • CA
  88. Calling All Angels

    Train · 2003 · 4:00

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
  89. Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)

    John Lennon · 1980 · 4:04

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
  90. Endless Love

    Diana Ross & Lionel Richie · 1981 · 4:26

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
  91. I'll Be Seeing You

    Billie Holiday · Sammy Fain / Irving Kahal · 1944 · 3:20

    • Reflection
    • US
  92. (Don't Fear) The Reaper

    Blue Öyster Cult · 1976 · 5:08

    • Wake / reception
    • US
  93. Who You'd Be Today

    Kenny Chesney · 2005 · 4:10

    • Reflection
    • US
  94. Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel)

    Billy Joel · 1993 · 3:35

    • Reflection
    • US
  95. Creep

    Radiohead · 1992 · 3:58

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • US
  96. Moonlight Serenade

    Glenn Miller · 1939 · 3:20

    • Entrance
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  97. Smile

    Nat King Cole · Charlie Chaplin · 1954 · 2:50

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  98. Can't Help Falling in Love

    Elvis Presley · 1961 · 3:00

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    • AU
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  99. Unchained Melody

    The Righteous Brothers · Alex North / Hy Zaret · 1965 · 3:36

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  100. Stand By Me

    Ben E. King · 1961 · 3:00

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • Exit
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  101. In My Life

    The Beatles · 1965 · 2:27

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  102. Let It Be

    The Beatles · 1970 · 4:03

    • Reflection
    • Exit
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  103. Here Comes the Sun

    The Beatles · George Harrison · 1969 · 3:05

    • Exit
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    • CA
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  104. Landslide

    Fleetwood Mac · Stevie Nicks · 1975 · 3:19

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  105. Your Song

    Elton John · Elton John / Bernie Taupin · 1970 · 4:01

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  106. One

    U2 · 1991 · 4:36

    • Reflection
    • UK
    • IE
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  107. Fix You

    Coldplay · 2005 · 4:55

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  108. A Thousand Years

    Christina Perri · 2011 · 4:45

    • Reflection
    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  109. Hurt

    Johnny Cash · Trent Reznor · 2002 · 3:38

    • Reflection
    • US
    • UK
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  110. Drive (For Daddy Gene)

    Alan Jackson · 2002 · 4:00

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  111. Snowbird

    Anne Murray · Gene MacLellan · 1970 · 2:10

    • Slideshow / tribute film
    • CA
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  112. If You Could Read My Mind

    Gordon Lightfoot · 1970 · 3:50

    • Reflection
    • CA
    • US
    YouTubeEditor’s pick
  113. The Parting Glass

    The High Kings · Traditional · 2008 · 3:20

    • Exit
    • Wake / reception
    • IE
    • UK
    • US
    YouTubeSpotifyEditor’s pick
  114. El Malei Rachamim

    Traditional Jewish chant (cantor) · Traditional liturgy · 1900 · 3:00

    • Committal
    • Jewish
    • US
    • UK
    • CA
    • AU

Most played, by published source

UK: most requested at funerals — Co-op Funeralcare 2025 (90,000+ funerals)

  1. Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò) — Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  2. My Way — Frank Sinatra
  3. Somewhere Over the Rainbow — Eva Cassidy
  4. You'll Never Walk Alone — Gerry and the Pacemakers
  5. The Best — Tina Turner
  6. Supermarket Flowers — Ed Sheeran
  7. Wind Beneath My Wings — Bette Midler
  8. Abide With Me — Traditional hymn
  9. We'll Meet Again — Vera Lynn
  10. You Raise Me Up — Westlife

Source: Co-op Funeralcare (Co-operative Group press release)

UK: most played, according to funeral directors — SunLife Cost of Dying 2026

  1. Abide With Me — Traditional hymn
  2. Amazing Grace — Traditional hymn
  3. My Way — Frank Sinatra
  4. All Things Bright and Beautiful — Traditional hymn
  5. The Lord's My Shepherd (Crimond) — Traditional hymn
  6. Angels — Robbie Williams
  7. Goodbye's (The Saddest Word) — Celine Dion
  8. Over the Rainbow — Judy Garland
  9. You'll Never Walk Alone — Gerry and the Pacemakers
  10. Jerusalem — Traditional hymn

Source: SunLife

UK: what people want at their own funeral — SunLife Cost of Dying 2026

  1. My Way — Frank Sinatra
  2. Angels — Robbie Williams
  3. Jerusalem — Traditional hymn
  4. Abide With Me — Traditional hymn
  5. You'll Never Walk Alone — Gerry and the Pacemakers
  6. Always Look on the Bright Side of Life — Monty Python (Eric Idle)
  7. Amazing Grace — Traditional hymn
  8. Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò) — Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  9. Wind Beneath My Wings — Bette Midler
  10. Spirit in the Sky — Norman Greenbaum

Source: SunLife

UK: top hymns — Co-op Funeralcare 2025

  1. Abide With Me — Traditional hymn
  2. All Things Bright and Beautiful — Traditional hymn
  3. The Lord's My Shepherd (Crimond) — Traditional hymn
  4. Morning Has Broken — Cat Stevens (Yusuf)
  5. Amazing Grace — Traditional hymn

Source: Co-op Funeralcare (Co-operative Group press release)

UK: top classical pieces — Co-op Funeralcare 2025

  1. Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò) — Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  2. Nimrod (Enigma Variations) — Edward Elgar (orchestral)
  3. Ave Maria (Schubert) — Franz Schubert (various performers)
  4. Nessun Dorma — Luciano Pavarotti
  5. Adagio for Strings — Samuel Barber (orchestral)

Source: Co-op Funeralcare (Co-operative Group press release)

Australia: most added to funeral playlists on Spotify — Legal & General, 2023

  1. Cigarette Daydreams — Cage the Elephant
  2. See You Again — Wiz Khalifa feat. Charlie Puth
  3. Mr Loverman — Ricky Montgomery
  4. Supermarket Flowers — Ed Sheeran
  5. Hallelujah — Jeff Buckley
  6. I Can Only Imagine — MercyMe
  7. Take Me Home, Country Roads — John Denver
  8. Creep — Radiohead
  9. Amazing Grace — LeAnn Rimes
  10. I'll See You Again — Westlife

Source: Legal & General (via MyTributes / Australian Community Media)

Australia: most played at Centennial Park, Adelaide — 2008 (oldest data here)

  1. My Way — Frank Sinatra
  2. What a Wonderful World — Louis Armstrong
  3. Time to Say Goodbye (Con te partirò) — Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
  4. Unforgettable — Nat King Cole
  5. Wind Beneath My Wings — Bette Midler
  6. Amazing Grace — Traditional hymn
  7. We'll Meet Again — Vera Lynn
  8. Over the Rainbow — Judy Garland
  9. Abide With Me — Traditional hymn
  10. Danny Boy — Traditional (Irish air)

Source: Centennial Park (Adelaide, SA) via Exclaim!

Faith and non-religious services

Humanist and non-religious: Humanist and non-religious funerals often include non-religious music and readings, with time for reflection (Humanists UK). There are no rules about which songs you can use: choose the ones that sound like the person. Filter by “Non-religious” to see secular choices.

Jewish: Traditional Jewish funerals usually have no music. Orthodox and most Conservative communities discourage it; Reform communities may allow music, but not from Christian liturgy (Rabbi Michael Samuel). The memorial prayer El Malei Rachamim is chanted at the service (My Jewish Learning), and psalms such as Psalm 23 are read. A slideshow with music may fit better at a separate memorial gathering — ask the rabbi.

Muslim: Music is not part of an Islamic funeral: the Janazah is a short prayer led by an imam, with no speeches or music (King's College London). That is why this list has no songs for Muslim funerals. A quiet photo tribute without music, or recitation chosen by the family, is more fitting.

Songs for a slideshow or tribute film

One song carries about 40 photos at 5 seconds each; two contrasting songs make a 6–8 minute tribute. See how many photos for a funeral slideshow and the best songs for a funeral slideshow. Playing a recording at the service is generally covered by venue licences; putting it into a video you share online is not — see music rules.

Our rule of thumb (there is no published standard): build a tribute film around one to three songs of 3–4 minutes. At about 5 seconds per photo, one 4-minute song carries roughly 45 photos. For a slideshow inside a 30–45 minute crematorium service, one song is usually enough. Song lengths are shown in the list.

Questions people ask

What is the most played song at funerals?

In the UK, Abide with Me, which overtook My Way in SunLife’s 2026 Cost of Dying report. My Way remains the top choice of people planning their own funeral.

What song is played when the coffin leaves?

Families often choose something uplifting for the exit, such as You’ll Never Walk Alone, Always Look on the Bright Side of Life or What a Wonderful World. The committal itself usually has a quieter piece.

Can I play a pop song at a church funeral?

Many churches allow it at the entrance or exit, but rules vary, especially at a Catholic funeral Mass. Ask the minister or priest early; crematoria and celebrants are usually flexible.

How many songs do I need for a funeral?

Usually three to five: entrance, one or two hymns or reflection songs, and exit. A 30-minute crematorium slot rarely fits more.

Sources

  1. From Vera Lynn to Vengaboys: The UK's top funeral songs from the last 12 months revealed (2025 Funeral Music Chart) — Co-op Funeralcare (Co-operative Group press release), 2025-08-20 · Funeral directors and arrangers surveyed May-June 2025, based on 90,000+ funerals conducted in the previous 12 months
  2. The most popular funeral music in the UK (2023) — Golden Charter (reporting Co-op Funeralcare 2023 chart), 2023-07-27 · Co-op 2023 chart, ~93,000 UK funerals
  3. SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2026 - 'Top 10 songs played at funerals' (p.62-63) — SunLife, 2026-01 · Critical Research for SunLife: interviews with 100 UK funeral directors (May-July 2025) and 1,500 people who organised a funeral in the past four years (June-July 2025)
  4. SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2026 - 'Top 10 songs we want for our own funeral' — SunLife, 2026-01 · Same SunLife 2026 research (consumer preference list, not plays)
  5. What is the most popular Irish funeral song? — AA Ireland (AA Life Insurance), 2018-05-27 · Survey of 4,000+ Irish people (stated preference)
  6. Australia Reveals Its Favourite Funeral Songs — Centennial Park (Adelaide, SA) via Exclaim!, 2008-07-02 · Centennial Park (South Australia's largest cemetery/crematorium) service records; size not stated
  7. Popular Funeral Songs — Anton Brown Funerals (Brisbane), 2021-09-18 · Funeral director's list; no data basis stated
  8. Most popular funeral songs ranked by Spotify data — Legal & General (via MyTributes / Australian Community Media), 2023-10-24 · 300,000+ songs in public Spotify playlists titled e.g. 'funeral songs', 'mum's funeral' (2021 analysis by Legal & General)
  9. Top Funeral Songs (76 songs) — Legacy.com, 2019-04-10 · Editorial list by Kirk Fox; no data basis
  10. Funeral Songs — Dignity Memorial (SCI, US/Canada), undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Provider guidance; no data basis
  11. Funeral Songs Canada: 25 Picks & Planning Guide (2026) — Senior-plans.ca, 2026-06 · Editorial, based on funeral-home/celebrant observation; no survey
  12. How to create a playlist for an Irish funeral or wake: classics and modern choices — RIP.ie, 2025-12-17 · Editorial (Mairéad Neary)
  13. Funeral service step by step - popular hymn choices for funerals — Church of England, undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Official denominational guidance (17 adult hymns listed)
  14. Sacred Music Selections for Mass of Christian Burial — Church of the Holy Spirit (Roman Catholic parish, Stamford CT), undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Parish-approved funeral Mass music list
  15. El Maleh Rahamim — My Jewish Learning, undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Reference article
  16. Music & The Jewish Funeral — Rabbi Michael Samuel, 2012-05 · Rabbinic commentary
  17. Janazah prayers and funeral (student notice) — King's College London, undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Institutional explanation of the Janazah
  18. Humanist funerals — Humanists UK, undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Official guidance
  19. Magyar temetési zene lista — Temetkezési Vállalat (temetkezesivallalat.hu), undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Funeral company's curated list of 30 Hungarian songs; no play data
  20. Magyar zenék temetésre — Lapidaris, 2020-04-14 · Funeral/memorial company's curated list of 19 songs
  21. Zenék temetésre — Schäffer és Wagner Temetkezési Kft., undated (checked 2026-10-05) · Funeral company's list of 11 pieces
  22. Extrémtől a hagyományosig: milyen zene szól a temetéseken? — HVG, 2010-06-15 · Interviews with five Budapest cemetery managers (Rákospalota, Fiumei út, Farkasrét, Cinkota, Megyer)
  23. A temetési istentisztelet rendje — Magyarországi Református Egyház, 2007-03 · Official Reformed funeral liturgy

How we built these lists: “most played” rankings come only from the dated sources above. Songs without a source are marked as editor’s picks. Each listening link was checked against YouTube’s or Spotify’s public oEmbed service on the date shown in our data, and links we could not verify were dropped. We do not supply recordings; please use your own copies at the service.